Re: Dr. Dray's Office

by **Aureus** Tue Nov 30, 2010 4:51 am

Bastun seems pretty outgoing here, meaning he can take his personality on these forums into RL and become more outgoing like urs truly Razz

by **Dray The Fingerless** Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:22 am

Aragorn wrote:
Aureus wrote:I didn't say he was. I just meant conform a bit. It never hurts to try to blend a lil. Ofc dont giv ur personality up, but try to mold it to fit in with ur surroundings.

You don't understand an introvert at all. Introverts don't blend in at all, it's against their nature. You're asking an introvert to become more extroverted and it doesn't work that way...

I used to be severely introverted, wich is a situation that comes from various reasons(i call it situation, because humans are inherently social beings). An introvert can become more social. Sometimes it doesnt work that way, and sometimes it does. However, if he comes out, he has to come out on his own terms and pace.

by **Red-X** Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:55 am

Dray The Fingerless wrote:
Aragorn wrote:
Aureus wrote:I didn't say he was. I just meant conform a bit. It never hurts to try to blend a lil. Ofc dont giv ur personality up, but try to mold it to fit in with ur surroundings.

You don't understand an introvert at all. Introverts don't blend in at all, it's against their nature. You're asking an introvert to become more extroverted and it doesn't work that way...

I used to be severely introverted, wich is a situation that comes from various reasons(i call it situation, because humans are inherently social beings). An introvert can become more social. Sometimes it doesnt work that way, and sometimes it does. However, if he comes out, he has to come out on his own terms and pace.

bingoz

by **Aragorn** Tue Nov 30, 2010 3:23 pm

Aureus wrote:Bastun seems pretty outgoing here, meaning he can take his personality on these forums into RL and become more outgoing like urs truly

It's not unusual for other people to take on different personalities with people they know they will never meet in real life. I'm more outgoing on here than I am in real life and I'm introvert. Not quite like Bast, but I am and you see me acting differently. It's another sense of self, basically.

Dray The Fingerless wrote:
Aragorn wrote:
Aureus wrote:I didn't say he was. I just meant conform a bit. It never hurts to try to blend a lil. Ofc dont giv ur personality up, but try to mold it to fit in with ur surroundings.

You don't understand an introvert at all. Introverts don't blend in at all, it's against their nature. You're asking an introvert to become more extroverted and it doesn't work that way...

I used to be severely introverted, wich is a situation that comes from various reasons(i call it situation, because humans are inherently social beings). An introvert can become more social. Sometimes it doesnt work that way, and sometimes it does. However, if he comes out, he has to come out on his own terms and pace.

Yeah, it would have to be on his terms and pace but I don't see it happening right now. He's too introverted.

by **Dray The Fingerless** Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:04 pm

I disagree. I think he is a 'social bomb'(within his own social circles) waiting to happen. He has an extremely fast and colored mind, and speaks his mind alot in here, wich if influenced in IRL, could chain react him to be more social.

by **Aragorn** Tue Nov 30, 2010 7:40 pm

I see your point. He could be, yes but you're basing it off how he acts here. People act differently on the internet than in real life for a reason. It can transfer over, yes but it's not a common thing. I'm not saying it couldn't happen, I'm just saying it's not likely.

by **Dray The Fingerless** Tue Nov 30, 2010 7:51 pm

Im saying that what he is, flushes out in here, and it can can flush out in IRL too. Here its brain dead easy, in real life it takea bit more, but is more than possible.

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by **Aragorn** Tue Nov 30, 2010 9:41 pm

Dray The Fingerless wrote:Im saying that what he is, flushes out in here, and it can can flush out in IRL too. Here its brain dead easy, in real life it takea bit more, but is more than possible.

Agreed.

by **BaStUn** Wed Dec 01, 2010 7:15 pm

Don't mind this anymore >_> I speak my mind wherever I am, in school, on the streets, at home, noone can stop me from voicing my opinion and stating what I think.
Oh and CoG, you could stop giving me more reasons to hate you. kkthnxbye

by **Aureus** Wed Dec 01, 2010 11:13 pm

Only giving advice, sweety

BaStUn wrote:I speak my mind wherever I am, in school, on the streets, at home, noone can stop me from voicing my opinion and stating what I think.

by **BaStUn** Thu Dec 02, 2010 12:21 pm

Aureus wrote:Only giving advice, sweety

Your advice is not needed by me. Well, at least not anymore.

As a normal civil citizen I have the right to speak my mind and I do it. I confront other people (even sometimes the bullies) and I do not fear them. It's just fucking annoying.

Maybe another reason to be an introvert is the supression I'm under.
That's because my neighbourhood is right next to the gypise's neighbourhood (if you can call it neighbourhood). I've been robbed twice by them. Coming in fron of me, a whole bunch of them, etc.

First time it was a shock.

Second time I was prepared- I could run away or fight. But there was a little problem. There was a friend of mine with a broken arm. I would most likely choose run away, which meant to leave him with them. I won't do such a thing.. At least while I'm a human. I have honor and I respect it.

But that's for a different topic.

I'm pretty sure CoG, that you will never understand the "weird" people and the introverts. Maybe neither the sensitive. But if you were borned an introvert, you would understand it. I'm sure.

Even if I am an introvert, I am not different then the extroverts. I have nearly the same interests. I also enjoy music (that shocked some people though) and I stand for my rights (even more than the extroverts cause most of them don't even bother to think about their rights, all they do is have fun and bully other people).

I think the most important thingsin life are to stand for your rights and fight for your dreams, no matter of your character, it doesn't mean anything about your inside.

I'm out.

by **Red-X** Thu Dec 02, 2010 12:32 pm

BaStUn wrote:Your advice is not needed by me. Well, at least not anymore.

As a normal civil citizen I have the right to speak my mind and I do it. I confront other people (even sometimes the bullies) and I do not fear them. It's just fucking annoying.

Maybe another reason to be an introvert is the supression I'm under.
That's because my neighbourhood is right next to the gypise's neighbourhood (if you can call it neighbourhood). I've been robbed twice by them. Coming in fron of me, a whole bunch of them, etc.

First time it was a shock.

Second time I was prepared- I could run away or fight. But there was a little problem. There was a friend of mine with a broken arm. I would most likely choose run away, which meant to leave him with them. I won't do such a thing.. At least while I'm a human. I have honor and I respect it.

But that's for a different topic.

I'm pretty sure CoG, that you will never understand the "weird" people and the introverts. Maybe neither the sensitive. But if you were borned an introvert, you would understand it. I'm sure.

Even if I am an introvert, I am not different then the extroverts. I have nearly the same interests. I also enjoy music (that shocked some people though) and I stand for my rights (even more than the extroverts cause most of them don't even bother to think about their rights, all they do is have fun and bully other people).

I think the most important thingsin life are to stand for your rights and fight for your dreams, no matter of your character, it doesn't mean anything about your inside.

I'm out.

wait, so all this help we just gave you was for nothing......... 'Awsome.'

by **BaStUn** Thu Dec 02, 2010 12:36 pm

can't understand why did you decided that, neither how
PS: OH! I understood. the first sentence was directed at CoG, my bad
PPS: Edited with quoting CoG

by **Aureus** Thu Dec 02, 2010 8:17 pm

I can't say I do understand; but that's for a different place and time.

Glad u made up ur mind

by **The Exile** Mon May 21, 2012 4:37 am

Ma hair grows up 2 fast T_T

by **Dray The Fingerless** Mon May 21, 2012 11:25 am

mine doesnt grow enough. well my head hair at least...my body hair grows well enough.

theres women who like hair and women who dont. youll find someone who likes you for that.

by **The Exile** Mon May 21, 2012 5:30 pm

good to know Neutral

by **The Exile** Wed May 23, 2012 10:37 pm

Btw, I need to know a good and easy way to remember things (like definitions, names, numbers, etc)

by **Dray The Fingerless** Thu May 24, 2012 8:50 am

Try mnemonics. Also associating those things to other things that you do remember.

by **The Exile** Thu May 24, 2012 10:07 am

Dray The Fingerless wrote:Try mnemonics. Also associating those things to other things that you do remember.

Like common stuff (cars, buildings, books) or things like my birthday, first day at school, etc?

by **Aardvark** Thu May 24, 2012 10:19 am

Things specific to you, things you identify personally with because you're less likely to forget those. For instance part of my phone number is a 35, my mother was 35 when I was born, so I associate them.

by **The Exile** Thu May 24, 2012 4:28 pm

Lol worked, I almost get the max qualification at my math exam today Very Happy

ty vm

by **Dray The Fingerless** Thu May 24, 2012 6:34 pm

mathematics is not a memorization science. unless you mean youre memorizing formulas...(PSSSS, YOURE DOING IT WRONG)

by **The Exile** Thu May 24, 2012 10:19 pm

Dray The Fingerless wrote:youre memorizing formulas

The test was only some questions about definitions, formulas, etc, didn't had to do any math operations

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