AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
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AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Well... as some of you may know, I am not a person with 1000 friends, most likely with 10 and from the last year till now, I noticed that I cannot count even on the 10 of my close friends... well its not like it haven't happened before, I really often argue with my... "friends"... at school, but that summer I noticed my really close friends who I know from like 10 years, don't count me as a person who can be trusted with friendship... so my question is, is it something with me?
Aaaaand this is what happened yesterday and today, since I have decent problems with my eyes, and I don't want to put glasses, I decided to go to the first desk at school, which meant I have to sit next to the bully at the class... Well, it was the only free desk, since the teacher wanted him to stay alone without bickering with everybody. I know that 'bully' as in school, as a person in real life, and we are friends, though he bickers and fights with everybody except me and his other friends (he has a band of bullies in real life). And for the sevens years I have been in school, I tried and sometimes sucessed making friends. The problem is one really fat (before 2 years he was 80 kilogrames= 176 pounds) which I didn't tried to be friends with- he wanted to be my friend (in the next years I saw he tried to make many friendships that way >.>) aaaaand he suddenly became my best firend. When we started 5th grade he turned into a jerk, bickering with everybody, annoying and taunting everybody, and using his strenght (when he punches you, you have the feeling your bones are being braked by the most brutal way) to fight with everybody, mostly with girls (Bwa hahahah, noob, he could fight with boys). When we started sixth grade, he became annoying like hell, I had to stop talking to him whole weeks so he can start acting friendly with me again. He loved lying. He loved saying he is "smart" (Orly?). nad I had to ignore him and act like nothing happened. TILL 7th GRADE.
A giant part of me was a drama already, drama here on forums, drama in real life, and I could not take more drama. But he was free from drama, wasn't he? He used to do many shits to many people, didn't he? Many of my classmates said "Fuck it, stop being his friend, he manipulates you and uses you to do whatever he wants"... What was I supposed to do?
Yesterday and today he acted like a total jerk. A total douchebag. Our class lived 7 years together, we lived hard moments, but we had mostly fun (if you don't count the studying) so bickering with eachother was kinda normal (if you don't count my "friend"'s bickering) aaand today some girls attacked me rolling their books and hitting me, I did the same, I rolled my notebook and I started fighting too. The whole fight he was supporting the girls and trying to kick me hiding behind "they are girls after all" (I guess he forgot that he is the one who teases everyone, mostly the girls). When we stopped fighting and everything went back to normal, he came and said "lets go to the next lesson". I was so fucking angry that I said "I have nothing to tell you anymore" and I left the classroom. While I was leaving, I heard him laughing at me. And thus, we stopped talking to eachother again.
When I came back from school (about 3 hours ago) I logged on my skype. I will show you what we chatted (translated, of course).
Him: So what, you are standing next to the bully and you are trying to act like a badass huh
Him: ?
Him: ...
Me: Yes
Me: Explode from jealous
Him: Ha, and why do I have to
Him: Badass, badass but with the ass in front (wtf?)
Him: You can't do anything
Him: What do you think, that if you are sitting next to him you can do whatever you want
Him: now
Him: you are
Him: threating
Him: people
Him: with
Him: him
Him: but
Him: you know
Him: that the people
Him: don't give a f**k about him
Him: you don't know
Him: but that's the truth
Him: they don't giuve a f**k
Me: I haven't threat anyone
Me: So...
Him: yeah, right
Me: and now I'm busy
Him: you told .....(not going to mention names) that if ....(the bully) sees what he is doing with the desk he will smash him
Me: Well, because he almost turned the desk upside down on purpose
Him: big deal
Me: you know how he is, he will attack you even if you're just walkin' 'round
Him: (gonna skip that part because he was just offending some of my friends in real life)
Me: bye, I don't have anything to tell you anymore
Him: oh yes you have
Him:
Me: because the others in class told me everything you said behind my back
Me: and I heard MYSELF
Him: and what have I said?
Him: c'mon
Him: tell me
Him: I'm listening
Him: ...
Me: I heard very well what were you talking with ......(other fat boy)
Him: only because I haven't said anything you're now saying this
Me: When you say that I have talked behind your back, and I prove you are wrong, you always throw the fault on other people
Him: don't change the theme
Me: you're the one who changes it
Him: first on first, you laughed at ....(bully)'s jokes so I have the right to laugh at you
Me: you told the others I have been "hardheaded" (in the bad meaning of the word)
Him: only the jerks use that word and I don't think that me or some of the class is one of them
Him: only because you sitted there you're acting like "the big deal"
Me: I sitted there to see the board better kkthnxbye
Him: well whatever, we aren't sitting on the same desk anymore and you don't count yourself as a friend of mine and I don't give a f**k (that shows his friendship) I found another friends, while you are now a friend with a bully
(arguing about me fighting with the girls, gonna skip that as well)
(again arguing for trivial things which hapened and he grabbed at them so he won't lose our "debate")
Him: (after losing the "debate") GTFO
Me: kkthnxbye
Him: why did you thanked me
Me: because you deprived me from the annoyance to argue with you
Him: GTFO!!!
(he blocked me)
And then I blocked him as well + reporting for abuse to the skype center.
Question remains the same
What did I do worng. Have I just caugh people who does not deserve my friendship? Or something is wrong with me? I doubt I just caugh bad people, because when I found that nobody thinks me for a person, who deserves friendship etc., my best friends kinda agreed with it. (Ask Stoyanmen, he is one of them)
Aaaaand this is what happened yesterday and today, since I have decent problems with my eyes, and I don't want to put glasses, I decided to go to the first desk at school, which meant I have to sit next to the bully at the class... Well, it was the only free desk, since the teacher wanted him to stay alone without bickering with everybody. I know that 'bully' as in school, as a person in real life, and we are friends, though he bickers and fights with everybody except me and his other friends (he has a band of bullies in real life). And for the sevens years I have been in school, I tried and sometimes sucessed making friends. The problem is one really fat (before 2 years he was 80 kilogrames= 176 pounds) which I didn't tried to be friends with- he wanted to be my friend (in the next years I saw he tried to make many friendships that way >.>) aaaaand he suddenly became my best firend. When we started 5th grade he turned into a jerk, bickering with everybody, annoying and taunting everybody, and using his strenght (when he punches you, you have the feeling your bones are being braked by the most brutal way) to fight with everybody, mostly with girls (Bwa hahahah, noob, he could fight with boys). When we started sixth grade, he became annoying like hell, I had to stop talking to him whole weeks so he can start acting friendly with me again. He loved lying. He loved saying he is "smart" (Orly?). nad I had to ignore him and act like nothing happened. TILL 7th GRADE.
A giant part of me was a drama already, drama here on forums, drama in real life, and I could not take more drama. But he was free from drama, wasn't he? He used to do many shits to many people, didn't he? Many of my classmates said "Fuck it, stop being his friend, he manipulates you and uses you to do whatever he wants"... What was I supposed to do?
Yesterday and today he acted like a total jerk. A total douchebag. Our class lived 7 years together, we lived hard moments, but we had mostly fun (if you don't count the studying) so bickering with eachother was kinda normal (if you don't count my "friend"'s bickering) aaand today some girls attacked me rolling their books and hitting me, I did the same, I rolled my notebook and I started fighting too. The whole fight he was supporting the girls and trying to kick me hiding behind "they are girls after all" (I guess he forgot that he is the one who teases everyone, mostly the girls). When we stopped fighting and everything went back to normal, he came and said "lets go to the next lesson". I was so fucking angry that I said "I have nothing to tell you anymore" and I left the classroom. While I was leaving, I heard him laughing at me. And thus, we stopped talking to eachother again.
When I came back from school (about 3 hours ago) I logged on my skype. I will show you what we chatted (translated, of course).
Him: So what, you are standing next to the bully and you are trying to act like a badass huh
Him: ?
Him: ...
Me: Yes
Me: Explode from jealous
Him: Ha, and why do I have to
Him: Badass, badass but with the ass in front (wtf?)
Him: You can't do anything
Him: What do you think, that if you are sitting next to him you can do whatever you want
Him: now
Him: you are
Him: threating
Him: people
Him: with
Him: him
Him: but
Him: you know
Him: that the people
Him: don't give a f**k about him
Him: you don't know
Him: but that's the truth
Him: they don't giuve a f**k
Me: I haven't threat anyone
Me: So...
Him: yeah, right
Me: and now I'm busy
Him: you told .....(not going to mention names) that if ....(the bully) sees what he is doing with the desk he will smash him
Me: Well, because he almost turned the desk upside down on purpose
Him: big deal
Me: you know how he is, he will attack you even if you're just walkin' 'round
Him: (gonna skip that part because he was just offending some of my friends in real life)
Me: bye, I don't have anything to tell you anymore
Him: oh yes you have
Him:
Me: because the others in class told me everything you said behind my back
Me: and I heard MYSELF
Him: and what have I said?
Him: c'mon
Him: tell me
Him: I'm listening
Him: ...
Me: I heard very well what were you talking with ......(other fat boy)
Him: only because I haven't said anything you're now saying this
Me: When you say that I have talked behind your back, and I prove you are wrong, you always throw the fault on other people
Him: don't change the theme
Me: you're the one who changes it
Him: first on first, you laughed at ....(bully)'s jokes so I have the right to laugh at you
Me: you told the others I have been "hardheaded" (in the bad meaning of the word)
Him: only the jerks use that word and I don't think that me or some of the class is one of them
Him: only because you sitted there you're acting like "the big deal"
Me: I sitted there to see the board better kkthnxbye
Him: well whatever, we aren't sitting on the same desk anymore and you don't count yourself as a friend of mine and I don't give a f**k (that shows his friendship) I found another friends, while you are now a friend with a bully
(arguing about me fighting with the girls, gonna skip that as well)
(again arguing for trivial things which hapened and he grabbed at them so he won't lose our "debate")
Him: (after losing the "debate") GTFO
Me: kkthnxbye
Him: why did you thanked me
Me: because you deprived me from the annoyance to argue with you
Him: GTFO!!!
(he blocked me)
And then I blocked him as well + reporting for abuse to the skype center.
Question remains the same
What did I do worng. Have I just caugh people who does not deserve my friendship? Or something is wrong with me? I doubt I just caugh bad people, because when I found that nobody thinks me for a person, who deserves friendship etc., my best friends kinda agreed with it. (Ask Stoyanmen, he is one of them)
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
lmao, you two handled this extremely immaturely...
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Excuse me?
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Red-X wrote:lmao, you two handled this extremely immaturely...
You are very cocky. (Not Red.)
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
And I would like to see how you guy would handle it, Misters "Most mature persons in the whole freaking world"BaStUn wrote:
Excuse me?
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
plus, the fact that your SEVENTH GRADES having these types of episodes just amazes meh o_o
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
He loves living in drama, and since we don't want to , he makes us live with drama
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
I could just let this gets the fuck away, but he wanted to make more drama
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
BaStUn wrote:I could just let this gets the fuck away, but he wanted to make more drama
Then stay away from him. Take a break from him. A true friend shouln't be acting like that anywayz
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
I don't think I know how a true friends acts, since all of my friends are acting like gayssssssssss, so I really don't know how a true friend acts
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Just noticed that...Shinobi Kenshi wrote:Red-X wrote:lmao, you two handled this extremely immaturely...
You are very cocky. (Not Red.)
Hell, why am I "cocky"?
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BaStUn wrote:I don't think I know how a true friends acts, since all of my friends are acting like gayssssssssss, so I really don't know how a true friend acts
when you get one... you will know it
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
take it from someone thats been through the bullying and shit... you will know sometimes it just takes time
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
I think everyone, except the bullies, goes trough bullies and shits. and I think I still have a few close friends
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BaStUn wrote:I think everyone, except the bullies, goes trough bullies and shits. and I think I still have a few close friends
actually not really, i use to be a bully myself :\
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
well first of all i dont really think u did much wrong u handled it alright - and before u take any of my advice, kno that i am a person who is rarely bullied who has lots of friends cuz i am a very approachable person if any1 ever needs help - i have only been bullied a few times, and it hasnt really been bullying, just nitpicking and dumb stuff - but anyway i find it a good idea to just go with it - if ppl r tryin to make fun of u or b rude to u just to look good, then just b passive and hav the attitude like u dont care - the times i have been made fun of which was like 3 times at the most, ive just been like ok with it and ddnt care, and they realized that i really just ddnt care what they said, and i befriended some of them 2 by just bein polite back to them while they r rude to u if u do this, its funny how easy they will come around back to u hope that helps??
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Red-X wrote:BaStUn wrote:I think everyone, except the bullies, goes trough bullies and shits. and I think I still have a few close friends
actually not really, i use to be a bully myself :\
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Also, why the fuck were girls hitting you.
Bast, my only advice to you is, stop being a bitch. If you feel people are taking advantage of you, then tell them to fuck off. Also, do what Greggo said. If someone makes fun of you, just play it off cool. the best thing to say in a situation like this is
Bast, my only advice to you is, stop being a bitch. If you feel people are taking advantage of you, then tell them to fuck off. Also, do what Greggo said. If someone makes fun of you, just play it off cool. the best thing to say in a situation like this is
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
^ friend of mine says that line all the time =___=
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Ah, we always harass with each other so the girls attacked me
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Red-X wrote:^ friend of mine says that line all the time =___=
atleast its useful
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
I have a hard time believing that D:Red-X wrote:BaStUn wrote:I think everyone, except the bullies, goes trough bullies and shits. and I think I still have a few close friends
actually not really, i use to be a bully myself :\
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Re: AND ONCE AGAIN, everyone manipulates me and acts with me like a jerk, then hiding against lies etc.. is it something with me?
Aureus wrote:I have a hard time believing that D:Red-X wrote:BaStUn wrote:I think everyone, except the bullies, goes trough bullies and shits. and I think I still have a few close friends
actually not really, i use to be a bully myself :\
people change over time
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